Saturday, February 04, 2006
hmmm....was jus watchin a tv show n had sum tots...for those who haf bf/gf or even those tat r married....how honest r u 2 ur partners? How much do u tell them? do u bare everytin...includin wat secrets u haf wif ur buddies...
cuz e show clearly show me tat buddies secret was kept fr spouse...then when kana expose then he told e wife-to-be thus makin her disappointed n left him bein a criminal n go 2 jail...damn sad...
tis make me tink, how much do u trust ur partner in bed, or ur future partner in bed...muz there be such tings as secrets between a couple 2 protect oneself?
haha...now even me will start wonderin if my bf keep secrets fr me...well i guess for me as long as the secret wont threaten our trust n our r/n ship...im okie...but i will prefer 2 be truthful 2 my partner...and hope he bare all his heart out 4 me too...
but guess time constraints n different busy commitment will worsen it...poor communication will take place...n so will miss out sum details...but it jus goes 2 show tat e person aint puttin in effort...
so nt committed then hw 2 stay tog as a married couple in future? imagine stayin tog...both come hm drained fr a day wk...so each jus ignore each other n do own stuff then slp...hahaha...onli when one's mood is hapi, well rested then talk...do common ting tog...nt acceptable 4 me...detest it alot...but may u guys can provide me wif a gd reason y...so i can accept...
guess it reli take alot of commitments n luv 2 come hm...try 2 put aside wk..comfort ur luv one, then in return get comfort back...share abt each other's wk...be nice dun irritated each other....then begin each new day tog...isnt it great?
but guess most ppl will choose the 1st one, problems ownself solve, if nt buddies, dun tax on ur luv one...onli share n make ur luv one hapi n tat it is....but wont it becum 2 strangers then?
anyway, jus share wif me any views u guys hav...have a great wkend...
cheyanne (>_<) last posted ; 2:31 PM